Quote Originally Posted by andrewv View Post
I do provide a small amount for pre-meets, around $100, and say to the SB that it is to cover her travel (uber/taxi) and the brief time over coffee. If you say you will not pay anything they think you are a "time waster". Also, even a small amount like $100 gives them something to look forward to or else some girls will "ghost" you and don't show up. In all cases, no matter how great the chemistry is between us, I keep it down to 20-30 minutes. I tell them this time limit before we meet. Of course if the chemistry is good you can start to talk about when to meet again at a hotel room.
IMV bad bad bad move

I would never pay $100 just to say hello fuck that. You need to put value on yourself and show that you are not an ATM.
Found plenty of legit girls happy to have that coffee for no fee, those are the girls you want.
I am sure plenty of bitches are making a living from those $100 BS meet ups. Don’t be an amateur, be cool.