You sure not MFM? MMF sounds like you shared yourself...Quote:
Originally Posted by fluffstatic
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You sure not MFM? MMF sounds like you shared yourself...Quote:
Originally Posted by fluffstatic
I dedicate Without You by The Kid LAROI to all those bros stuck in the webs weaved by these girls. Put all your age discriminations aside and listen to it, it is an ode to you my friends. Nothing less!
Haha didn't realise the order matters. In that case yes it's MFM lolQuote:
Originally Posted by alc
Or its MM FQuote:
Originally Posted by fluffstatic
Lol
Better edit my comment to clarify. Although there's nothing wrong with MM!Quote:
Originally Posted by 1inchguy
And after 2 years, I just did lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by alc
Going to keep it short and sweet. There are two types of WL's / WL's with BF's. Boyfriends that do not know and boyfriends that do know and accept the fact she does what she does and in both situations, its the same shit they all say. They want the girl to quit her job because the BF loves her blah blah blah.
If you want her to quit, you will need to support her 100% financially. If you can't do that, she will continue working regardless because its all about the money and WL's need money to support their lives. If you want a girlfriend, do it in the real world like I have done in the past.
Agreed. In the west, it's all about moving out and being independent. With Asians, it's ALL about family, so also plan on helping, at a minimum, parents (repaying the mother's milk), and obviously any kids. Siblings... well... lines can be drawn there.Quote:
Originally Posted by Niceguy11
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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
“Oh what a tangled web we leave
When first we practice to deceive”
I knew one girl who had six guys stuck in her web. I called her Miss Freelove though nothing about her was free.
Yes 100% 11bravo. Back story for me is that I dated a WL around the end of 2020. She no longer works and left the industry to get married, have kids and get PR which is why she did what she did. We had a falling out and broke it off. It started off great in terms of going out like a normal couple, dinner, drinks, gambling and fucking of course which was free but we all know in the dating a WL world that nothing is free. I mean I was not paying like a normal punter but spent $$$ on dinner and going out. We would take turns paying but yeah, nothing is free despite most outings were cheap.Quote:
Originally Posted by 11Bravo
Fast forward to the present, over the years I have met 100's of WL's that say they have partners, boyfriends and husbands. I remember one saying to me that she had a break from the industry for 5 years while her then boyfriend supported her but not a lot financially. He would give her money but not to the extend had she been working. Obviously, working in a shop is going to get a lot more money. Eventually, the relationship ended and she went back to working in the shop and has not stopped since then despite having numerous relationships.
Look, do what you want. If you want to date a WL then do it. But remember, they will always fail. Heck, I have even heard stories from WL's who told me they don't even want to marry their boyfriend and that they don't even love them so why the hell would they be dating them anyway ? A WL has plenty of money and can support themselves. I'm putting it down to the only logical reason why they date customers........They are lonely and need some sort of companionship. Time and time again, I have heard WL's say "I'm lonely living by myself and would like some company". When I have heard this, I'm like "sorry, I can't hang around with you due to work" which is a bullshit reason but the real reason why I say that is because all you'll find is yourself going down a rabbit hole like Alice in wonderland.
There is 3.5 billion woman in the world, not sure on how many adults and ages but you get my drift. There are plenty of woman in the world that blokes can date. Punting is punting. Purely transactional and that's it ! Once that shop door closes and you leave the premises, leave it at that.
No better words have been said.. but fucking hard not to get tempted some time.. esp when chasing the GFE sometimes..Quote:
Originally Posted by Niceguy11
Business transaction is the best rule to live by no matter what the brain/dick is telling u..
All true.Quote:
Originally Posted by Niceguy11
Plus it's not always the best sex, almost like bringing your work home.
A few WLs told me they give better service to paying customers because they have to.
The BFs provide emotional support like cuddles and listening.
Either way it's a stressful way of life for the BFs.
Yeah exactly Riff. Its the emotional support 100%. Some nights when a shop is not busy, a WL can spend hours and hours alone in that room by herself. It can certainly take its toll.
Had phone calls from WLs when it's quiet, they hate it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Niceguy11
That’s what one WL is messaging right this very minute. I’m deciding if I should go visit her. It means driving across town from where I am. It’s her first day in the place. I know the weather is one factor and location could be another. It’s wasn’t my decision where she works as we’ve only just got involved together. Who knows who else she is messaging? Maybe she’s calling in regulars?Quote:
Originally Posted by Riff888
Trust is something I don’t have with any of them at present. Perhaps I never will.
Best to keep your trust thing going, some of them can be conniving bitches.Quote:
Originally Posted by Spanky69
Look it’s a gold digger’s paradise out here. So many guys dreaming, myself included. Just maintain your guard.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jimbo1
Excellent point, never quite thought of that in that way. At work, can't go out, stuck there, hoping for some business, but not making any money, and the bills keep coming... that is depressing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Niceguy11
100% agree with you on this.Quote:
Originally Posted by Spanky69
"Some", (I'd say a FEW), but MY experience, you treat them as a person, that gets returned; they're a very good mirror. Most return the trust. Mutual understanding of what the relationship is. I'm straight with them, they're straight with me. Different MO here, but same demographics; I had no trouble with "I'm off to work at O-dark hundred so no morning wake-up, you sleep, I'll be back for an afternoon delight".Quote:
Originally Posted by Jimbo1
What's that saying? Do unto others...
Or maybe I've just experienced some unique subset...
Thanks 11Bravo. I think the saying is:" Do unto others..." but I get your drift...
Exactly right bro. WL's have told me that punters that treat them like shit, will often treat the punter the same way. You show respect, you'll get respect. So many girls have blacklisted certain punters for the way they treat them as well. That's why most shops have CCTV cameras with TV's in the waiting rooms so the girls can see who comes in.Quote:
Originally Posted by 11Bravo
THANKS for pointing out I should ALWAYS wear my reading glasses. I'll correct in the original, but I really do appreciate the error check. :smile:Quote:
Originally Posted by schloong
Like I say, I always look at the other side of the coin, what if the situation were reversed? How would I feel?
As a punting buddy once pointed out, be thankful for the shitheads - they make us basic guys look great in her eyes.Quote:
Originally Posted by Niceguy11
Like you say, I'll risk another ancient saying: respect begets respect. :smile:
A bad week for a WL is $2500 in the hand. Unless they live large they can get by on that.Quote:
Originally Posted by 11Blocko
Few ml girls spoken to me about this aswell.Quote:
Originally Posted by Niceguy11
They refuse service and also they save numbers on the phone so they keep track who's seeing who.
99.9% of shops have a lot of cameras. Its good for both ML's and WL's to see who comes in. Before you even say hello to the mamasan, the girls already know who you are (if you are banned or refused service by WL/ML)Quote:
Originally Posted by 1inchguy