Quote Originally Posted by 11Bravo View Post
Agreed. In the west, it's all about moving out and being independent. With Asians, it's ALL about family, so also plan on helping, at a minimum, parents (repaying the mother's milk), and obviously any kids. Siblings... well... lines can be drawn there.
Yes 100% 11bravo. Back story for me is that I dated a WL around the end of 2020. She no longer works and left the industry to get married, have kids and get PR which is why she did what she did. We had a falling out and broke it off. It started off great in terms of going out like a normal couple, dinner, drinks, gambling and fucking of course which was free but we all know in the dating a WL world that nothing is free. I mean I was not paying like a normal punter but spent $$$ on dinner and going out. We would take turns paying but yeah, nothing is free despite most outings were cheap.

Fast forward to the present, over the years I have met 100's of WL's that say they have partners, boyfriends and husbands. I remember one saying to me that she had a break from the industry for 5 years while her then boyfriend supported her but not a lot financially. He would give her money but not to the extend had she been working. Obviously, working in a shop is going to get a lot more money. Eventually, the relationship ended and she went back to working in the shop and has not stopped since then despite having numerous relationships.

Look, do what you want. If you want to date a WL then do it. But remember, they will always fail. Heck, I have even heard stories from WL's who told me they don't even want to marry their boyfriend and that they don't even love them so why the hell would they be dating them anyway ? A WL has plenty of money and can support themselves. I'm putting it down to the only logical reason why they date customers........They are lonely and need some sort of companionship. Time and time again, I have heard WL's say "I'm lonely living by myself and would like some company". When I have heard this, I'm like "sorry, I can't hang around with you due to work" which is a bullshit reason but the real reason why I say that is because all you'll find is yourself going down a rabbit hole like Alice in wonderland.

There is 3.5 billion woman in the world, not sure on how many adults and ages but you get my drift. There are plenty of woman in the world that blokes can date. Punting is punting. Purely transactional and that's it ! Once that shop door closes and you leave the premises, leave it at that.