How to quit punting?

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Originally Posted by Weapon

There are meds that slow down your testosterone levels. You won't feel keen anymore to put in the effort to drive out there especially in winter.

"Should i go punting??"

Before: Fuck yeah
After: I can't be fucked

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These testosterone reducing meds, will the demotivation also affect other aspects of life? Like exercise

Trying my hardest to stop cold turkey!
But it’s bloody hard. Especially when I keep interacting with this site, it doesn’t help lol.

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Originally Posted by putsputs

These testosterone reducing meds, will the demotivation also affect other aspects of life? Like exercise

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Yeah i would say so to a degree. If you have been exercising all your life then it wont stop you, especially if you have a routine.

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Originally Posted by Babewatch

Trying my hardest to stop cold turkey!
But it’s bloody hard. Especially when I keep interacting with this site, it doesn’t help lol.

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First step is to get banned from this site lol, Its not hard to do.

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Originally Posted by Weapon

First step is to get banned from this site lol, Its not hard to do.

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lol, yeah I’ve noticed that over the years.

It's all fun and games as far as I’m concerned.

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Originally Posted by justincase

I’ve been banned possibly 50 times by moderators who are power hungry. Their sphere of influence in their paltry lives is only here and I refuse to let them control me so I’ll keep coming back irrespective of how many times I’m banned.

Plus I date a lot of of the tarts I punt on purpose then dump them hopefully tainting or reinforcing their poor opinion of men lol.

Let’s see some other guy try and succeed after I’ve finished. Ever wonder why some don’t show up when rostered for work? I deliberately keep them in bed, double lol.

Call it a power trip or a battle of the wills but it’s all fun and games as far as I’m concerned.

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Cool story, bro.

I stopped punting for almost two months. It felt like recovering from an addiction. I still have urges to go out, DFK, and have rough sex, but now I'm always broke. To quit punting, I started sending all my money to my partner, leaving myself with just 250 a week, just enough for food, transport, and essentials. This has worked for me, though I'm not sure how long I can keep it up knowing that some Viet WL has returned to work. Wish me luck.

Bro is a euphemism.

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Originally Posted by justincase

Bro is a euphemism that relates to Asian guys on here, I’m not Asian. I don’t see or hear of any guys doing what I do. They struggle to pull a woman and then it’s all about holding onto her and pleasing her. Why? You’re better off collecting multiple women and then doing with them as you please. You can afford to let one go, as you have back up. Why be happy with one only? These tarts that you punt do exactly the same thing. They string multiple men along and what’s in it for the men? Empty pockets and a broken heart.

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Exactly. What you do to them is the exact same thing they do with yourself and multiple other punters. Next time you punt, look at the WL's phone and see how many messages they get. On once occasion, a WL had her phone in the room and the amount of WeChat messages she received was insane. I can read Chinese and a bit of Japanese and can say all of them were punters.

One thing I can confirm is that the majority are in debt from those hostess bars of whatever its called. A regular J girl confirmed it with me. At first she was embarrassed but confirmed that's why she is doing the job. That was a few months ago. She has since returned to Japan after working in Sydney, Brisbane, Melbourne and Perth.

I already know how they operate.

The shock of almost getting an STD will do it (thought I got herpes on my butt/thigh but turned out to be shingles after swab test).

I also put the money that I'd have spent punting into a dedicated investment account. It really helps to see the amount going up every month. I have around $4k in the account now.

Delete all forums and chats related to punting. Stop withdrawing cash could help too

What helped me is not focusing solely the “busting feeling” but rather only concentrating on the feelings that comes after busting. For me the aftermath was a load of guilt, regret, time wasted on searching, traveling, waiting etc, the money wasted, the stress of infections, the thought of who knows how many other dirty penis she has probably done the same or even more explicit actions with, the thought of how dirty and desperate I may have looked to others and the ML ladies was enough to convince myself to check myself stop the regular visits to multiple shops. It’s hard breaking the cycle at the start but after the initial few weeks of urges, it’s gets easier and life financially and in general gets much better. My advice is definitely worth stopping and it does gets easier to quit.

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Originally Posted by Puntonthego

What helped me is not focusing solely the “busting feeling” but rather only concentrating on the feelings that comes after busting. For me the aftermath was a load of guilt, regret, time wasted on searching, traveling, waiting etc, the money wasted, the stress of infections, the thought of who knows how many other dirty penis she has probably done the same or even more explicit actions with, the thought of how dirty and desperate I may have looked to others and the ML ladies was enough to convince myself to check myself stop the regular visits to multiple shops. It’s hard breaking the cycle at the start but after the initial few weeks of urges, it’s gets easier and life financially and in general gets much better. My advice is definitely worth stopping and it does gets easier to quit.

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That’s great advice did you end up quitting or cutting down?

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Originally Posted by Puntonthego

What helped me is not focusing solely the “busting feeling” but rather only concentrating on the feelings that comes after busting. For me the aftermath was a load of guilt, regret, time wasted on searching, traveling, waiting etc, the money wasted, the stress of infections, the thought of who knows how many other dirty penis she has probably done the same or even more explicit actions with, the thought of how dirty and desperate I may have looked to others and the ML ladies was enough to convince myself to check myself stop the regular visits to multiple shops. It’s hard breaking the cycle at the start but after the initial few weeks of urges, it’s gets easier and life financially and in general gets much better. My advice is definitely worth stopping and it does gets easier to quit.

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I think this is good but there is another step which is WHY are you doing it. That takes a lot of internal reflection.

There’s a saying, “if you can’t beat them, join them”….

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Originally Posted by Ecchi

Delete all forums and chats related to punting. Stop withdrawing cash could help too

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Excellent advice.

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Originally Posted by anonymouspunter2

I think this is good but there is another step which is WHY are you doing it. That takes a lot of internal reflection.

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Absolutely. It’s all about looking in at yourself, questioning why you do things, the benefits and losses. Takes a strong mind to make decisions about forgoing pleasure and fulfilment.

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Originally Posted by Wayne

Absolutely. It’s all about looking in at yourself, questioning why you do things, the benefits and losses. Takes a strong mind

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or a weak wallet

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Originally Posted by Wayne

to make decisions about forgoing pleasure and fulfilment.

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First step : sign off completely from this site and similar forums & avoid rosters!

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Originally Posted by Wayne

Absolutely. It’s all about looking in at yourself, questioning why you do things, the benefits and losses. Takes a strong mind to make decisions about forgoing pleasure and fulfilment.

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Getting deep now but for me there were a couple of reasons... one ADHD and constantly seeking pleasure .. finding that out helped me to understand more why it was happening and it sort of lessened my enthusiasm for it in understanding it... the other was self soothing - like are you unhappy? Are you doing this (subconsciously) to make yourself feel better because you dont love yourself? If people want to quit they need to go deep looking at all this stuff. My 2c

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Originally Posted by anonymouspunter2

Getting deep now but for me there were a couple of reasons... one ADHD and constantly seeking pleasure .. finding that out helped me to understand more why it was happening and it sort of lessened my enthusiasm for it in understanding it... the other was self soothing - like are you unhappy? Are you doing this (subconsciously) to make yourself feel better because you dont love yourself? If people want to quit they need to go deep looking at all this stuff. My 2c

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Going very deep, there is a Buddhist perspective that life is suffering. So we are programmed - all living things - to avoid suffering and seek instant gratification. But here’s the rub. Pleasure and pain are transitory. Some say illusionary. As soon as we think we touch it, it disappears and we restart the cycle of seeking and avoidance.
Personally, the only reason I still punt is habit. I go for months without. And it doesn’t affect my equanimity. But then, something stirs and I want a release. I find once I start again I go into a frenzy for awhile then settle down.

Fuck you own wife or gf more atleast 3 times a week

A bad punt will do it. Visit the worst WL in the worst shop in Sydney and watch your enthusiasm drop.