I already know how they operate.
The shock of almost getting an STD will do it (thought I got herpes on my butt/thigh but turned out to be shingles after swab test).
I also put the money that I'd have spent punting into a dedicated investment account. It really helps to see the amount going up every month. I have around $4k in the account now.
Delete all forums and chats related to punting. Stop withdrawing cash could help too
What helped me is not focusing solely the “busting feeling” but rather only concentrating on the feelings that comes after busting. For me the aftermath was a load of guilt, regret, time wasted on searching, traveling, waiting etc, the money wasted, the stress of infections, the thought of who knows how many other dirty penis she has probably done the same or even more explicit actions with, the thought of how dirty and desperate I may have looked to others and the ML ladies was enough to convince myself to check myself stop the regular visits to multiple shops. It’s hard breaking the cycle at the start but after the initial few weeks of urges, it’s gets easier and life financially and in general gets much better. My advice is definitely worth stopping and it does gets easier to quit.
That’s great advice did you end up quitting or cutting down?Originally Posted by Puntonthego
I think this is good but there is another step which is WHY are you doing it. That takes a lot of internal reflection.
There’s a saying, “if you can’t beat them, join them”….
Excellent advice.
Absolutely. It’s all about looking in at yourself, questioning why you do things, the benefits and losses. Takes a strong mind to make decisions about forgoing pleasure and fulfilment.
or a weak wallet
First step : sign off completely from this site and similar forums & avoid rosters!
Getting deep now but for me there were a couple of reasons... one ADHD and constantly seeking pleasure .. finding that out helped me to understand more why it was happening and it sort of lessened my enthusiasm for it in understanding it... the other was self soothing - like are you unhappy? Are you doing this (subconsciously) to make yourself feel better because you dont love yourself? If people want to quit they need to go deep looking at all this stuff. My 2c
Going very deep, there is a Buddhist perspective that life is suffering. So we are programmed - all living things - to avoid suffering and seek instant gratification. But here’s the rub. Pleasure and pain are transitory. Some say illusionary. As soon as we think we touch it, it disappears and we restart the cycle of seeking and avoidance.
Personally, the only reason I still punt is habit. I go for months without. And it doesn’t affect my equanimity. But then, something stirs and I want a release. I find once I start again I go into a frenzy for awhile then settle down.
Fuck you own wife or gf more atleast 3 times a week
A bad punt will do it. Visit the worst WL in the worst shop in Sydney and watch your enthusiasm drop.
Why would you want to quit? I've been punting since the 90's because I like hot sex with different women.
I don't understand why I would give up something I enjoy, which brings me pleasure and motivation and makes me feel like a man.
As long as you have a code and rules, its ok. Don't overdo it. 2-3x per month. Regardless of your income or how much money you have, stick to a budget and make the girls work for every dollar and some.
There's a lot of weak cunts out there, not saying OP is one, but there are so many piss weak losers out and about who will simp to the girls and buy them flowers and dinner and all sorts of shit, and then when they're told to fuck off, they come crying here. Oh how do I quit??
Well why did you start dickhead? Ask yourself. You liked it then, so what's changed?
If you really want to quit then you'll need to find some better replacement. And it ain't gonna be your right hand. Cos wanking sux.
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