Good point. Emphasis on the "personal connection" part. Have you ever been in a situation, anywhere not just in punting, where the very first time you ever meet a girl, she just behaves like she's known you for a long time?
It always takes me by surprise. I could be ogling a girl for a while, gathering courage to talk to her, then when I finally do it, she just takes the lead from the get go. The rest is like a whirlwind and before I know it I'm in a relationship!
The same goes with MLs. I'd book a girl for the first time sight unseen thinking it would just be a run off the mill HJ sesh. Not very often, and only with K an C girls, they just really give me the vibe that they're "at ease" with me as soon as they come into the room. No formal greetings or whatever, they just come in talking about how they're having a bad day, etc. I'm again like a deer caught in the headlights but these first meetings usually lead to long-term regulars. None of them had any "open minded" on them either from my vague memory.
Girls can sometimes be so hard to figure out!









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