My 5 cents worth, if it’s of any help.
I can look back at 16 years of “sugaring” probably 30+ girls who were all beautiful 19 to 35 year old.
Some lasted 18 months while most ranged from one meeting to 3 months.

Fact #1: when you’re paying, it’s not a relationship. It’s a business deal. After all, they would not continue to have sex with you if you don’t pay. Also, they never ever offer any unpaid freebies because they feel for you. Not even as a birthday present to you.

Fact #2: even the you ones are expert at manipulation. It’s in their DNA. They do it instinctively. It’s them having power over you and you are emotionally weak, coming back with cash every time.

Fact #3: these girls fuck younger guys free of charge when they meet online and at clubs. But never their sugar daddies.

My advice to any brother here is “as soon as you get any hint of feeling emotionally attached, cut and run”. Do not be so stupid and weak and discuss it with the girl. Take back your power and take your cash to the next girl. There are 4 times more girls than sugar daddies online.

Always look in the mirror and ask yourself, “am I strong and in charge, of giving cash to solicit affection?”