Thanks for digging up this slightly humorous, albeit repetitive post for the read.

Quote Originally Posted by gfohoie View Post
Sometimes, bringing up someone’s past or work too early can create unnecessary tension, especially when things are still new and exciting. If she wants to share, she will, and if not, maybe it’s better to just focus on what you two have now. It sounds like you already have a deep connection, and that’s what really matters.
If someone isn't willing to share what amounts to a significant portion of their life and the relationship is based on dishonesty then it's a waste of time for everyone involved.