Dating a ML

[cometoIndia]

Does it really matter what she does for work anyway ? What difference would it make if she was a lawyer ?

My ex girlfriend WL from Chongqing from 2018 was like that and did BB with her regulars which was fine. Its her choice to do it and if it doesn't affect me, no issues.

I am sorry but what the fuck. I hope no one takes this post seriously.

[Niceguy11]

I am sorry but what the fuck. I hope no one takes this post seriously.

The reality is bro that if you are dating a WL and she does BB with you and she says she only does it with you (the boyfriend) she is doing it with her regulars. I wouldn't say any joe blow off the street, the girls are smart enough to know who to offer it and who not to offer it to. I have been in the game far too long to be naive and just want to tell the truth. If a punter is dumb enough to believe she is only doing BB because he is the boyfriend, then think again. Lets face reality.

You can believe me or not. I do not really care. I am just sharing my thoughts that's all.

[Spanky69]

Also, your punting days could soon be over...but not hers

Mine yes, she still has to make her money. Why should I support her just like that? She’s never asked and unless she moves in then I see no need to support her. Obviously she’s chosen the most lucrative way to survive that she knows. She dresses well, presents very well and that takes money. Just because we hooked up doesn’t mean she’s hooked me financially. I’m already thinking two steps ahead of any situation as I don’t want to be another read about it on the forum failure. I literally plan for any eventuality, what I’ll say if she says this or if she says that. I have to, it’s a gamble that I don’t want to lose. If everything settles into place then I’ll let my guard down progressively. There never will be a shared bank account or complementary credit card. Never any cars in her name, never any property and no business either. She can use but not own anything of mine.

Wear a condom. No, really.

I’ve never stopped wearing them. Who wants to be entrapped by a pregnancy? I’ve never had an STI and don’t want to get one either.

[Spanky69]

I'd say just go with the flow. Enjoy it while it lasts

Just dont take it serious & dont marry/co-habitate. Treat it like any other Friends with Benefits type thing.

The guys that get into trouble are the ones who couldnt control their emotions then "fall in love" and get attached emotionally.

She makes me happy and we haven’t slept together yet so I see that as a good sign. What she does in her own time is entirely up to her and I expect the same courtesy.

[scotindeeppuss]

I’ve just started dating a very attractive ML that has been mentioned on this forum. We met at a gym, not via her work. In fact I’ve never visited where she works and not interested in going there. We haven’t had sex yet and considering I’m a male slut I’d generally be in her pants in two seconds. In fact she has offered me to go back to her place but out of respect for the relationship I declined. I don’t want to seem too forward or rush the start of something beautiful.

Besides I still have other girlfriends I want to taper off (dump), she knows and I’ve told her that I don’t love them, which is correct.

My thoughts are, should I tell her I know what she does for a job? That I’ve read reviews on her or should I wait till she, if ever, tells me? I don’t care who she’s been with yesterday, today or tomorrow as that is totally not what this about. It’s about her and I. Maybe bringing her work into our relationship would spoil it. Perhaps I just leave it quiet and not say anything?

Sometimes you can experience déjà vu and to be truthful I knew this relationship was a longtime coming and now it’s arrived. When you first meet someone you can game things out. This one took six months but I knew the jackpot was well and truly worth it.

In the meantime she’s still working and putting smiles on your faces ��

this is interesting or some weirdo posting just to post something to reach 50
many missing puzzle pieces...with at center being how you know for sure she is a WL ?

assuming its all happening and true, looks no doubt you are serious and emotionally attached....now to know if she is having same feelings for you and there is a future together, you should accept her offer and rather be in her pants, but key part is while you are in her pants.....you need to identify and feel minute details of souls connection during the act...if her behavior is passionate, hot, steamy, sweaty, like both having sex between souls not body and ofcourse bareback... it cant be faked and its your real love, your jackpot of life, your soulmate, your one and only .....then you can bring moon and star for her.

And after you found out there is no need to confront about her job since as you clearly mentioned you are "not affected at all yesterday, today or tomorrow". If not just visit the shop while she is working and fuck her in fake passionate, hot, steamy, sweaty, ways./...lol

[ReginaldBubbles]

Why do I think this is another Vincent persona?

[scotindeeppuss]

Why do I think this is another Vincent persona?

what is Vincent persona? bare with dumbness if its very obvious...

[Spanky69]

this is interesting or some weirdo posting just to post something to reach 50
many missing puzzle pieces...with at center being how you know for sure she is a WL ?

assuming its all happening and true, looks no doubt you are serious and emotionally attached....now to know if she is having same feelings for you and there is a future together, you should accept her offer and rather be in her pants, but key part is while you are in her pants.....you need to identify and feel minute details of souls connection during the act...if her behavior is passionate, hot, steamy, sweaty, like both having sex between souls not body and ofcourse bareback... it cant be faked and its your real love, your jackpot of life, your soulmate, your one and only .....then you can bring moon and star for her.

And after you found out there is no need to confront about her job since as you clearly mentioned you are "not affected at all yesterday, today or tomorrow". If not just visit the shop while she is working and fuck her in fake passionate, hot, steamy, sweaty, ways./...lol

Fifty what, I’m guessing you mean posts? It might be another few more posts, but not many. Don’t you think I’d be doing the bare minimum number of words to get to fifty if that was the case? All I have done is convey my situation. She txt me at five thirty am before I woke up this morning and I know she’s been out last night, just gotten home with her BF and good on her. I already am up and getting ready to do my own thing today otherwise we’d be spending today together. Just like I still have other girls to sort out she has a guy who she has to get rid of too. She told me all about him. He’s half my age and she told me he loves her. I’ve seen various pics of him in the background months ago since Christmas Day and I had already put two and two together. She came out and told me such just like I freely admitted I had other girls. We had a very frank and open discussion about where our feelings are with other people and how we will be letting them go.


I already have her mind and her heart. The rest will follow suit when I’m ready. If anything it shows how calculating we both can be when it comes to our current lovers. We both already have the upper hand in our individual relationships with other people so breaking them off isn’t an emotional roller coaster. I’m already controlling this situation as it’s been planned and she has the weak hand.

I’m not sure how any of you set up your relationships and if you are the dominant person? It’s a choice you either make or you leave it to fate.

[Soccerfan]

This story has to be bullshit. If there’s the odd chance it’s true she probably thinks your gay.

[Spanky69]

This story has to be bullshit. If there’s the odd chance it’s true she probably thinks you’re gay.

We’ve already made plans for later this week and I’ll be doing the deed if that’s what you’re wondering about. I think making a person hungry for sex is a good thing. She already is all over me, all over me. We held nothing back except sex on our last date. She’s very passionate, a great kisser and I walked away with aching balls, a hard on and precum dripping. So yeah I want it real bad and so does she. It’s about making sure this one sticks, by that I mean I’ve rubber stamped her good and proper. Who knows I may even get my name tattooed on her somewhere. It’s a thought.

[doctorspock]

Has she asked you to lend money to her yet? What will you do then.

[Soccerfan]

Fuck, even I’m starting to think you’re gay.

[Dettol]

Some of you need to learn how to spot a troll lol

[Spanky69]

Has she asked you to lend money to her yet? What will you do then.

No she hasn’t, she lives in an apartment which I’m guessing costs around $2k a week so she must be making some money or she has a benefactor. She’s sought after as I see the messages pop up on her phone when she’s showing me pics. They sit there for a few seconds, I never read them as I can’t be bothered and it’s her business not mine. I totally understand her being a player but if she doesn’t deliver or perform then she’s gone. It’ll be her loss not mine. Remember I hold the cards and I’m dealing her what I want her to believe.

Fuck, even I’m starting to think you’re gay.

People’s sexuality isn’t a worry of mine. Though this being a punting forum I’d presume we all punt?

Some of you need to learn how to spot a troll lol

Several of my friends know I’m dating her. Now this forum knows. There’s way more to the story than I’m letting on but as I respect her work privacy there won’t be anything post that will put her income in jeopardy. She really is a beautiful person. Whenever we are out together I just look at all the other couples and think how bland they all are. They cannot help their normality, they’re a product of societal programming. We’re different, we dress differently and behave differently. I’m beginning to see that her and I have a lot in common.

I’m not a troll.

[Stubbies4Lyf]

Wear a condom. No, really.

Go raw dog I say. I wouldn't want to deny the next generation this kind of wild imagination.

[tcrawford]

This posters ego is out of control, the whole point of this thread is to flex. Without knowing which girl it is, its hard to say, could be a gravel donkey that none of us care about.

[NC3]

With any active ml/wl you can be: A] real friends, B] just lovers / have fun, C] sugar daddy / papa-katsu [ so you know its only about money and sex ] - or D] to do business with her [ help her for the visa etc. ] ... nothing else exist.

Any man who is falling in love or believe that can be in real relationship with active ml/wl need to get out of this asap. Only a weak / desperate man [ no judgment if you get in this category of men but you need to get out of this illusion asap otherwise soon or later you will hurt yourself emotionally and maybe financially as well ] can falling in love with the active ml/wl.

so simple ...

[ReginaldBubbles]

It’ll be her loss not mine. Remember I hold the cards and I’m dealing her what I want her to believe.

Whenever we are out together I just look at all the other couples and think how bland they all are. They cannot help their normality, they’re a product of societal programming.

Is your character inspired by Travis Bickle, Vinnie or are you just actually like this?

[Spanky69]

This posters ego is out of control, the whole point of this thread is to flex. Without knowing which girl it is, its hard to say, could be a gravel donkey that none of us care about.

Yes of course it’s a flex and if you could see her and be next to her then you’d be flexing too. One of the best things is to have my way with her in public. Slapping her arse, holding hands, kissing, cuddling. Go out and observe how many couples are actually intimate in the street, in the shopping centres or a restaurant. Not many nowadays. Yes we get a lot of looks. Especially from older people, why? Because I’m way older than her and I flaunt my ability to do as I choose. It’s a big flex and a big fuck you. Guys stare but will never get, their women stare and wonder how. Like I said, it took six months and she is worth every day I waited.

Now regarding her looks, she’s beautiful. I don’t date women that are not attractive. It’s all about choices. Surely you’ve seen a guy with a hot girl and you think he’s punching way way above his weight. Im not ugly though.

With any active ml/wl you can be: A] real friends, B] just lovers / have fun, C] sugar daddy / papa-katsu [ so you know its only about money and sex ] - or D] to do business with her [ help her for the visa etc. ] ... nothing else exist.

Any man who is falling in love or believe that can be in real relationship with active ml/wl need to get out of this asap. Only a weak / desperate man [ no judgment if you get in this category of men but you need to get out of this illusion asap otherwise soon or later you will hurt yourself emotionally and maybe financially as well ] can falling in love with the active ml/wl.

so simple ...

At present it’s A leading to B. I’ve deliberately held off on pushing B as she has to believe she’s the one initiating it. We kiss, caress, cuddle, hold hands continuously, walk with arms around each others waist and I’ve felt every part of her body except her most intimate part. Some may say the mind is the most intimate. I still believe it’s between her legs.

The other two girls I’ve been seeing were told a story and put on the back burner till I forget about them completely. If anything it’ll keep them keen, let them wait. Besides they just don’t compare in a lot of ways. Intellect is one.

Is your character inspired by Travis Bickle, Vinnie or are you just actually like this?

Actually like what?

I googled the name you mentioned and I’ve never seen the movie. Not sure how to take the comment. Don’t have the time to do any more research or watch the movie. This thread is a true story. It’s unfolding on a daily basis. It’s real life and the ML is real. We are seeing each other every second day. We both are busy, we don’t want to interfere with our income. We both have other lovers we are dealing with. Hers is half my age remember. I’m sure he will crash and burn as he’s no doubt immature but that is her problem, not mine. I’m not even sure how they connected, I asked her then ignored her reply. It was idle banter. I have what I want and as long as I keep her that’s all that matters.

[Spanky69]

Go raw dog I say. I wouldn't want to deny the next generation this kind of wild imagination.

I deliberately do not post any details regarding her location or where we go out or what we do. It’d be easy for some of you who see her to work out who she is whilst talking on the job. I’ve also come to the conclusion there is an old guard on this forum and the fact that a newb has bagged a young hottie doesn’t go down well with some of you older punters. Perhaps if you upped your game and devoted time and thought to the chase you’d get somewhere. It depends on what you’re after I suppose. The quick 45 min fix or a life choice.