Two years ago i got divorced fairly amicable but the confidence has taken a hit.
It took me six months before i felt like sexual contact of any kind so off to the local shop i went for a two hour punt those two hours felt amazing but the next day i did not feel relieved but dispondant waking up in a empty bed.
As time has gone on the punts have become more regular but still do not hold meaning only to release tension short term.
About six months ago whilst leaving a establishment i got busted by my boss who was walking in to said establishment (punting out of area married with a kid and missus pregnant with their second) i said gday and went home the next day i got called into his office asking for discretion which i have kept it was him who told me about this forum and i lurked untill last week when i joined.
How did other bros who have been in this situation get back out and dating as punting is good for stress releif,satisfying desires and female interaction but does nothing for confidence levels.
Just want to get back out in the world and feel time is right to meet new people.