Would you share your social media pickup adventures, if any?

[aussiegaigin]

Good attempt. WeChat works most with folks who know Mandarin, Cantonese, Japanese etc. Probably if a guy who doesn't know any of those languages then will be very hard to use East Asian Social Media in general. Also that makes you look like a stranger

Normally, I let the girls contact me first. If they don't have enough English to get past my profile, I'm not interested. At least the conversations can be translated; it would help my cause if profiles and comments could be too.

[rcha086]

I can draw so many comparisons to you Pussyhands. If the young version of me knew what I knew now, I would not have wasted so much fuckin' time!

Back to OP, I only had success once on social media and it was through Line chat (not counting the actual PWL/shop profiles on WeChat). I don't know what algorithms they use for their list of suggested friends for me but I hooked up with one of the many profiles that I tried friending. Ended up meeting twice and fucking on both occasions, then we never messaged each other again. I tried again after a year of not messaging but there was no opening of message or reply.

Regarding dating sites, again I only had one successful hit, and that was on sugardaddymeet.com. Was a sweet Asian girl who I hit it off with during our chats, and ended up seeing her on occasion over half a year. Was always short dates that ended in sex and no payment despite how we met.

I think being Asian, my chance of being successful on social media and dating sites is just super slim by default. Women actively looking for random sex just prefer non-Asians. Besides spambots and fake profiles, I've never been "approached first". Punting's just easier, and with forums and experience, I know how to guarantee myself a good punt, but after so many years it does get clinical and repetitive (book, pay, follow routine, hit time limit, repeat).

[Pussyhands]

I think there's some truth to that. ^^^^

I made picking up a full time job and was too much effort and no return.

But I am heading into the scene again with a different mind frame

My goal is to have sex with as many women as I can (as long as I find attractive).

Doesn't matter paid or not.

I had the wrong approach before as I used the bf image to try and hook up, instead of the hookup image to filter out the girls looking for bf style relations.

To me the hookup culture can be a lot of luck as girls sex drive is likely not as hardcore as us.

My main profession is punting and I am just fishing on those sites, I am thinking of it as secondary.
If I get something out of it then great, if not then doesn't matter.
Not gona invest much into it makes it feel less taxing and stressful!

Meeting Asian girls is great for me as I can practice my Chinese esp with reading hahahah

[puntercouple]

I won't bother with social media. With the amount of hours you put in, better off going punting.

[vitamin]

Lower expectations when using social media.
It's like fishing. If you guys are looking for a serious relationship.

Swipe daily. Check daily.
And just wait. Maybe months or a year or two. But when the right one comes along it's worth it.

Good girls aren't just there for the taking. They're rare. And get snatched up faster than a good bargain at a black friday sale.

If you wanna fuck a lot of girls, punt. Cheaper faster and more efficient. If you want a partner .. patience

[Pussyhands]

Lower expectations when using social media.
It's like fishing. If you guys are looking for a serious relationship.

Swipe daily. Check daily.
And just wait. Maybe months or a year or two. But when the right one comes along it's worth it.

Good girls aren't just there for the taking. They're rare. And get snatched up faster than a good bargain at a black friday sale.

If you wanna fuck a lot of girls, punt. Cheaper faster and more efficient. If you want a partner .. patience

Yes that is true! I see social media as adjunct to my main course of punting.

I guess you want to try and figure out what the girls are about asap so u don't waste ur time....

Currently if I get a match I just do some quick intro and then try and transition into what kind of relationship they into... girls are smart - they can tell what we are doing and I feel it's just better to be upfront but not rude

I think objective is to get friends with benefits or some sort of sexual arrangement then go from there - it will be pretty dry but hey you gota do what you gota do

[Shoryureppa]

I'll go punt to see someone who has good reviews & has the body type I like. I'm not on facebook but I have insta.

Picking up with social media is to make yourself a brand. If you have interesting photos & show you live a positive lifestyle on your insta then it does the work for you. We live in a time where everybody is connected through social media, picking up is different from before... Now you can expand your social circle & branch out extremely fast.

Going out to pick up with the end goal of sex is not the way. Guys think they are pick up guru's and can lay any woman. You will be disappointed time & time again. Nobody has a 100% lay rate with women, even the best of us. The goal is to have a good time & expand your social circle. Sex naturally comes with that.

[Pussyhands]

That is very sound advice, and I think that is true.

However, I find it extremely draining when going out and need plenty of breaks and down time. things going more than 30-1hour my mind is screaming at me to get the fk out and have alone time :@

I know this much about myself having gone hard as fk doing pickup. Like a full time job!

The actual picking up was okay, it was more the strain of having to perform back to back for extended periods of time then having 0 quality positive reinforcements. More punishing than anything ahhahaha if the stress and annoyingance of it wasn't enough, having girls scream at u was another thing ahhaahah

So yeah.... we all got our strengths and weeknesses!

Punting caters to me 100% cuz ur in there for that one hour. Punts lasting more than an hour or 2 tends to me me feel the same way - just want to get the fk out asap hahahah

And I think the social medial pick up I can live with as u just do it in ur free time much less pressure. The success rate is not an issue in my position as I am punting primarily and social medial as 10% of resources...

[Starlight]

I think there's some truth to that. ^^^^

I made picking up a full time job and was too much effort and no return.

But I am heading into the scene again with a different mind frame

My goal is to have sex with as many women as I can (as long as I find attractive).

Doesn't matter paid or not.

I had the wrong approach before as I used the bf image to try and hook up, instead of the hookup image to filter out the girls looking for bf style relations.

To me the hookup culture can be a lot of luck as girls sex drive is likely not as hardcore as us.

My main profession is punting and I am just fishing on those sites, I am thinking of it as secondary.
If I get something out of it then great, if not then doesn't matter.
Not gona invest much into it makes it feel less taxing and stressful!

Meeting Asian girls is great for me as I can practice my Chinese esp with reading hahahah

This is true that it is numbers game as well as luck factors in it.
From my experience the speciality dating sites are waste of time and money. Many of those sites do big promises wit zero results. Sometimes if you're a free member, you will get 2-3 messages from female profiles that will lure you into paying member. After you pay the money those females with fake profiles stop communicating.
Whatever algorithm they come up with and promise you to best match with opposite sex is all fake claims.
Yes if you change your approach, you can be successful. Just hit on the right lady in the right time.

[Pussyhands]

It's interesting as people say
"Hit the right lady at the right time"
As if we have to be on the look out all the time.

Like no that's not how it works lols don't be a slave to this. This is training you to be subservient.