Lol what the fuck? Hahaha.. random much?Originally Posted by beta101
Since I'm positing anyway
OP.
1. everyone has the right to seek the best partner in life. Unless you two are married. I say you have 0 claim to her loyalty. Her devotion and love is earned and not demanded.
All is fair in love and war.
2. Make yourself the catch. If you are better than all the chumps who approach her. You should have nothing to worry about.
3. Generally girls want security, stability and comfort. It's their default setting. You say you've been dating for close to a year?
If that's the case. Her investment of time in you, familiarity, attachment are all working in your favour. So unless you really don't stack up with the guy she's comparing you with. You shouldn't have much to worry about.
Who wants to start a relationship from scratch?Especially a good one?
Settings up rules, checking up on her, acting all insecure will have a very negative effect on how she views you. She definitely ain't gonna love you more for it.
Relationships are built on trust. So trust her. A man who is trusting and not needy is far more attractive.
And you trusting her will make her feel better than you not
4. If she does leave you for someone else.
a. She likes to play and wasn't worth it in the first place. If she can do it now. Even if you stop her with rules and regulations. in time she'll cheat/leave at some point.
You can put down as many ground rules as you want like, who she can give numbers to, have fake numbers Or don't give FB. It ain't gonna work if she really wants to. You can't stop her.
Just ask all the punters here who are married or dating on this forum.
So better sooner than later. Just find someone loyal.
b. Look within. Maybe it was you who was crap in the relationship, not being the ideal partner not making her Happy. And in that case. You don't own her and shes every right to seek better spouse / partner in her persuit of happiness. (Just hope she has common courtesy to not do both at same time)
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