My point is what I already said. You dont seem happy so why not do what you have to do to reach your goal sooner and hopefully be happy.
I Have no interest in visiting you, I'm just trying to give you sincere and actionable ideas to help you make some big $$$. I know it's not advice from uncle but I think it makes a lot of sense.
Anyway let's face, uncle probably wanted to meet you to see if you have natural D+ cups so he can Spanish you.