Quote Originally Posted by xboyx View Post
Hey man, feel sorry for you after reading this.

Feeling is in our human nature and it's not easy to act against your feeling even though all other guys have already told you so. We all have been on that same boat. Don't feel sorry for yourself dude, it's a lesson learned in life, it's just part of the process. And think about all the natural sex and all the fun and fucking you've had so far, it's a memory to keep. The rest of it (the arguments, all the fighting and bad feeling, questions) will become a laugh in 1-2 years time. You and your mates can hang out one day in a few years and you will be fucking laughing at it "remember the girl I fell for, fuck I was crazily in love with her hahaha".

Yea it hurts but it will go away. To be honest though, I've never been in that situation because I've never tried to ask any WLs/MLs girls out, despite I like them as much as you do.

Just go for another massage/sex and it helps big time. Hanging out with some dude friends and you'll feel better.

And by the way, you have been kind enough to her. Presume that you didn't fight with the guy to win her, you let him take her in NZ, that's a high act comparing to the scum guy who was even crazier than you that he flew to NZ and took her from you. Is she that worth to fight for? Absolutely not, I'd never fight for a girl like that. That guy thinks that he wins, but no, you're the winner here because you got out of the shit and will move on with your life, while he's getting into the shithole again. He's stupid.

PS: btw are you Hamish from the Hamish and Andy radio station?
Hey thanks for this. It really hits my heart and makes me feel a lot better. I definately can see myself be happier in the future - just right now it sucks and that's normal because of the feels and loneliness. I will for sure visit some other shops! Yeah I didn't fight too hard to keep her but i did fight for her to stay with me on our trip, i did talk to her and tell her I would finish everything together if she went to see him while in NZ but she said wait wait wait etc. Just to keep me in her life. Thinking back that should of been the last time I should of saw her.

Haha i love how you think i'm the winner and I agree! No more headaches, no more worrying about lying/cheating now he can stress about her and wait for the next guy to pop up cause with her there always is. Time to find myself a honest woman!

I wish i was Hamish from Hamish and Andy - dear god would that make this juicier.