By the time u enter the shower nd shes still not looking into your eyes then forget it.( these type of girl is on auto mode) U meet girls Like that with shitty attitude(mainly chinese) u just have accept it nd good luck for ur next punt.

I wont worry too much about breaking the ice but just be you trueself nd with genuine compliments is a must ... the wl/ ml is pro they can feel you sometime at the end she just warm up to you.