ML asks you to marry her

[wilisno]

Funny how this issue keeps coming up again and again. I agree with most of the guys here. She may have other motives, but then she may be genuine.
I would not paint all MLs with the same broad brush. I know of at least one genuine ML. I offered her a compromise. Live with me, stop all ML work and get a job elsewhere.
She took up the offer. Stopped working as ML, and found work at a supermarket and a clothing shop(no bull, I checked). She lived with me and I paid for all expenses. No BFs etc. I got full exclusive privileges. I actually started to like her. She was pretty hardworking saving money for her uni fees. I helped her with the balance of her uni fees a couple of times when she could not save enough from her work. Her dad was furious when he found out she was living with a guy from a different background. When her dad died, she went home for the funeral etc and never came back. I shipped her stuff back to her. I never pursued the relationship and it end there. She eventually gave up waiting for me. I am probably the ass-hole in this relationship but I cannot honestly say I felt strongly enough to marry her.

Lucky you .... unlucky her !

[gimpy]

Hi brother H,
2. The shop is a Korean B2B and I supposed you didn't do bare back with her, so obviously she would have got condoms ready, why would a B2B girl has condoms handy, you really believe you are the only one she did FS with?

They give a CBJ for 60 seconds at M8 as part of the service.

quotes from her: 'You are my man', 'You are my number 1', 'I only have sex with you here'.. Sweet things to smile at sometimes.

With 'I only have sex with you here', which word did she emphasize? 'I only have sex with YOU here' or 'I only have sex with you HERE'? Is she only having sex with you when you pay, or is she claiming that you're the only one she has sex with while she's at work?

If I was you I'd marry her and get her to support you with all the money she makes at M8. If she doesn't make enough there get her to do night shift at Golden Flower.

http://youtu.be/4m1EFMoRFvY

[IExperiment]

Hi brother H,

after reading your post I have a very simple take at this, and probably not something you want to hear but I say it as I see it:

1. You saw her for the first time and you got FS from her for free, then you tipped her $200, so it's not free afterall.

2. The shop is a Korean B2B and I supposed you didn't do bare back with her, so obviously she would have got condoms ready, why would a B2B girl has condoms handy, you really believe you are the only one she did FS with?

3. If I counted correctly, you saw her 4 times in quick succession, so she was a very successful ML in securing her own regulars. and everytime you had FS, you didn't mention if you tipped her more in subsequent visits, if you did, then she made good money on you, if you don't then she got your repeat business anyway.

4. She asked you to marry her, sounds flattering and interesting, but if you actually say yes, I doubt if the girl will go through with it. I don't think the girl is after your status or money, probably just some no harm fun. may be it is visa related, or she was simply testing the water, you will have no idea how many other clients she has told they are the only person she wanted to have sex with and they are hers!! and how many of them had received her marriage proposal.

5. You have a girl friend right? be nice to her and try to get more intimate with her may be your better bet.


Just my two cents

Cheers

If I have a stab and guess HC already done BB with her

[babelx]

In all seriousness, please keep us posted with your progress.

[Cracker38]

Just don't think with ur dick too much, he only ever gets u in to trouble hahaha

[Mashburn]

Any update to share?

[jellyshots]

The two of you would have to set some ground rules. No more punting for you and no more working sex shops for her. Get her out of massage too. An assistant in a grocery store, a job at Myer, anything that keeps her busy.

I hope the two of you live happily ever after.

Ground rules are really important. It's so weird but I can say that from experience now. I was a regular of this latina ML in a pretty busy shop. For the last few months, things started heating up - initiated by her. She paid all off her student loans off, got into a cushy full-time respectable job and is a PR. My last visit, she asked me if I was still single, still doing stupid speed dates etc... She then laid it on me that she was quitting that night and wanted to be my gf. So starting slowly, we dated - I got the full blown insight into why she went to work there, what she really thought of some of the punters and why she left. We kind of chuckle that we met whilst I was on the punt but frankly, whilst she's seen a lot of dick, I've had way more intercourse than she has.

I guess being yourself and treating them nice pays off sometimes.

[IExperiment]

Ground rules are really important. It's so weird but I can say that from experience now. I was a regular of this latina ML in a pretty busy shop. For the last few months, things started heating up - initiated by her. She paid all off her student loans off, got into a cushy full-time respectable job and is a PR. My last visit, she asked me if I was still single, still doing stupid speed dates etc... She then laid it on me that she was quitting that night and wanted to be my gf. So starting slowly, we dated - I got the full blown insight into why she went to work there, what she really thought of some of the punters and why she left. We kind of chuckle that we met whilst I was on the punt but frankly, whilst she's seen a lot of dick, I've had way more intercourse than she has.

I guess being yourself and treating them nice pays off sometimes.

Good on you thats what I mean try before you buy why not if she is what you wanted for at least 10 years give it a go thats a good investment. Nothing is guarantee. We all have standard just pick yours.

[jellyshots]

Good on you thats what I mean try before you buy why not if she is what you wanted for at least 10 years give it a go thats a good investment. Nothing is guarantee. We all have standard just pick yours.

I had to train her so I know she's not that experienced. We hadn't actually gone FS when she was working there. Even the first kiss was accidental. She went to kiss me on the cheek and I moved, lol...

[IExperiment]

I had to train her so I know she's not that experienced. We hadn't actually gone FS when she was working there. Even the first kiss was accidental. She went to kiss me on the cheek and I moved, lol...

Some might think your dreaming dude and tell you that she might be a good actor you will be the judge and jury but I know what you mean as it happen to me 10 years ago the investment is still good I am going for another term deposit hopefully for another 10 years will see but looking good at the moment.

[jellyshots]

Things work out pretty well for me when I trust my instincts. And I did put the graft in and found a very good looking, ML that was jaded with her work and then I threw on the charm offensive.

[altgourami]

The smart MLs never do FS with customers. They might date a few, they might fuck a few, but a smart ML will never fuck in the room for a tip. FS as a ML is the slippery slope to being a full on sex goddess. A few WLs I know started as ML and regret ever unlocking the key to the box that cannot be closed. Once a WL it's hard to forget the fun, the excitement, the attention and the cash that goes with being a full on WL. THey also tend to not trust men anymore.

[guailo]

I am not being unkind here hiddencharm. But if the only attraction you are feeling now is her physical beauty and sexual skills, I doubt you have what is needed to keep the relationship going (in the longer term anyway). Personally, I have found that relationships that lasts longer and are happier are those where there is more than physical attraction and sex. There has to be that "higher level" connection.

[jellyshots]

I am not being unkind here hiddencharm. But if the only attraction you are feeling now is her physical beauty and sexual skills, I doubt you have what is needed to keep the relationship going (in the longer term anyway). Personally, I have found that relationships that lasts longer and are happier are those where there is more than physical attraction and sex. There has to be that "higher level" connection.

I agree with this too. Saying that, there has to be an initial physical attraction in the first place because on the days you aren't getting along so well, the physical attraction can get things right back on track. There have been times when you are snappy at someone coz you woke up on the wrong side of the bed and when you look at them, you just can't stay angry at them.

[chrisluvzmidas]

I don't wanna be rude here.... But wake up to yourself... She is a whore... She pulls dicks for money.. hundreds, more than likely thousands of dicks have been in her hands. Do u honestly believe you were the first to fuck her.. I don't! She probably fucks different blokes everyday.. wake up and smell the flowers mate. They are there to provide a service. Go in, pay your money, blow a load and leave... How could u even think of marriage!!! I know this is harsh but a bit of tough love is what u need! If she wanted you, you wouldn't be fucking her in the shop.. you'd be at her house. It's all about money at the end of the day. Yeah u can make excuses but really the facts are she is a whore who makes u cum for money... You can't make a hoe into a housewife.

[jellyshots]

I don't wanna be rude here.... But wake up to yourself... She is a whore... She pulls dicks for money.. hundreds, more than likely thousands of dicks have been in her hands. Do u honestly believe you were the first to fuck her.. I don't! She probably fucks different blokes everyday.. wake up and smell the flowers mate. They are there to provide a service. Go in, pay your money, blow a load and leave... How could u even think of marriage!!! I know this is harsh but a bit of tough love is what u need! If she wanted you, you wouldn't be fucking her in the shop.. you'd be at her house. It's all about money at the end of the day. Yeah u can make excuses but really the facts are she is a whore who makes u cum for money... You can't make a hoe into a housewife.

Are you replying to hiddencharm's original post or mine?

[chrisluvzmidas]

The original by hiddencharm.. I hate seeing guys suckered in by pussy that EVERYONE is having a go at... He thinks he is the only one but Im pretty sure if he gave us her name and we all went for a visit at least a few would be gettin some action.

[jellyshots]

The original by hiddencharm.. I hate seeing guys suckered in by pussy that EVERYONE is having a go at... He thinks he is the only one but Im pretty sure if he gave us her name and we all went for a visit at least a few would be gettin some action.

Yeah, he's only eve seen her in the shop and he paid $200 tip. I think we should have a new acronym for that. Instead of GFE, it should be SWE - simulated wife experience. WL opens your wallet, takes all the money out leaves room and sucks the next punter's dick instead of yours.