I challenge you ninjapunter:
If you care that much about the girl, I challenge you to book her for 1 hour, but you just stay there to listen to her story, comfort her and get NO sex, NO BBBJ, no nothing, just talk and make her more comfortable!
See if you care enough about the girl that you don't let your urge for sex take over your mind. If you can do that, you are worthy!!!!

Let us know.