I see mostly MLs and I think compared to WLs they have more scope to manipulate guys since inevitably this feeling of "being special" boils down to who they are screwing and in case of WL it's everyone who is paying.... With ML they will say "only you baby"!!!

In any case a WL / ML is practicing with multiple guys each day to compartmentalise and say things to keep guys coming back.

Yes you can have a connection but there is multiple other guys with Same connection.....

It is the nature of the beast.....

This is not to say a WL or ML is a bad person it's just that by the nature of their work they generally can't / won't get involved with punters and the ones that they do get involved with outside of shop are the ones who they know won't get too close.