Quote Originally Posted by Basil22 View Post
She was already qualified. But due to a string of bad decisions and bad luck couldn’t work legally here. She is also a massive scatterbrain in a lot of ways! It’s actually her best and worst quality. Best because it means she is in the moment and really easy to have fun with, worst as she tends to get herself into disastrous situations (one of the things that was difficult about being with her)

I’m still happy with the decision I made, I really don’t think it would’ve worked long term. But I wouldn’t change a moment, not even for all the pain, anxiety and sleepless nights ! Learnt a lot about life and love that year.
So she’s married to an Aussie guy , was qualified to do something and sounds like a qual recognised here , and now working in the finance industry , but back then with you she was illegal, but now she isn’t

She could can support herself as she is qualified and working , but she wanted a knight and someone to look after her .but in the end she took herself out of her depressing situation . Or did another guy or guys step in after you began to opt out ?

Nothing odd there , plenty of non working girls are no different . Seems like and given she is now non industry very real GF/partner possible ... as for relationships built on mutual lust attraction and sex at least at the beginning , it’s a rare few that ain’t


BTW . Whilst all this was happening with her , did you stop punting and only spend time with her and when did you stop paying for her time ?