Ok, I'll share my story. Slight variation to what Bro AHLUNGOR is asking about but a pickup anyway.
I'm a cauc guy in my 50s although could get away with claiming to be mid to late 40s.
Earlier this year, through boredom and a bit of loneliness I joined a Thai dating site. After I put up a few pics had heaps of women chatting to me.
Eventually I found an Aust based Thai girl. Aged in her early 30s. So we chatted on the site for a while and then exchanged ph. nos. Shared a few photos and got to the stage we were texting quite a lot each day. Might add I only gave her my punting ph no.
Arranged to meet her in Sydney one weekend. She was a really sweet attractive girl. Took her to a football game and then out to dinner.
Did I fuck her......no. She was looking for a loving relationship and I had no intention of hurting her by just using her. I actually felt like a real jerk for letting the situation get to the stage it did.
So I stopped things before it got too serious. Told her I was too old for her, our cultures were too different, and best if we moved on. I sincerely hope she finds someone special.
My main point is, I demonstrated to myself how easy it was for a cauc guy to pick up an Asian girl on a dating site.
Not something I'm particularly proud of and I got out of that site and will never return.
So now I stick to punting and know I'm not messing with anyone's feelings.