Quote Originally Posted by holi_day View Post
After reading this, all I wonder is what would happen with your Thai ML? Will you see her again in the shop or outside?
Haha, hmm yeah I’m still undecided. We’ve got a funny relationship, had sex once in the shop and then I got a bit attached so she won’t go that far with me again. Said she doesn’t want to lose a friend. When guys get clingy she cuts them off and goes totally cold on them. She’s lost a few regulars for this reason apparently. She sees the regulars as her friends for some reason, maybe because she opens up to them more. Anyway she calls me her best friend now, I’ve been chipping away at her slowly trying to break down her barriers but then I asked myself today what is the end game? I’m in a relationship and she knows it, it’s not often we can spend time together outside the shop. And it’s not like she’s playing me or anything, she paid for dinner the other night.

In my heart of hearts I don’t think anything good can come of me seeing her anymore but it is definitely a little hard to stop communicating with an ML once a relationship has been established.