Quote Originally Posted by F0x View Post
Negging is very simply a tool to be used. Its used to shake down a girls confidence who otherwise wouldnt be in your league in order for her to seek approval from you. Its like a test, if shes okay with you calling her fat, (i.e keeps talking to you after) then she'll likely be ok for other stuff too. The lower the girls initial self esteem is, the better this will work.

It isnt inherently good or bad on its own, its just a tool or protocol which PUAs use to help them game.

And as a tool, it defines you as much as you see someone holding a Racquet and say "they play Tennis/Squash etc" using Neggs immediately says "that person (can be female too btw) is a PUA".

If the neg gets rejected (she calls it, walks away etc) then the PUA is "ok". Oh it wasnt _me_ that got rejected, no, the neg didnt work, ill have to try a different one next time. S/he just didnt get it.

So to me its really just a shield to help block rejection, and reel in beta females.

@xboyx

Its true what you say, but i think you need to understand the context a bit better.
Attractive women have men come up to them all the time complimenting them immediately to get into their pants and its EXCEEDINGLY obvious. This is what they are sick of.

You can still compliment a woman "normally" and get her attention if you simply are genuine about it, are 100% free from ulterior motive in telling her, and dont do it immediately after meeting her.

Or you can try negging and see how it works for you. Ive personally never had to neg to get women to like me, but each to their own, and if it works for you, go get em Tiger
Absolutely. Especially agree with the line about guys it as a shield so it was the neg that didn't work, not them.
Of course pua stuff was all a great money maker for a few guys who got a bunch of people to believe in what they were spinning and thus sell books, seminars etc. Even the line "You want pumped?" Will very occasionally work.
I once saw a wannabe pua try to woo this one girl. He used every trick in the book, literally, and she just had 0% interest (and that's the key... it's all about female interest. But that's another story.) The girl rumoured him only a very small amount as he was a friend of a friend. Finally she asked who he was and he tried to say "I'm an existentialist" but couldn't pronounce it, so said "exits.. existm.." to which one of the other guys who'd been silent the whole time finally spoke "it's pronounced existentialist and if you can't pronounce it, chances are you aren't one."
Long story short girl went home with the second guy that night, pua whined to all within earshot his lunch was cut...
You don't have to neg a girl, talk to them like human beings and hold a decent conversation, be witty but pick your audience, and most of all just don't take it personally if a girl isn't interested, no need to be a prick (not directed at anyone in particular.)