I was wondering how long the whole "hahah, asking guys who pay for sex" would take to come through, didnt take long lol.

Being punters doesnt mean we arent aware of pickup, take the OP for example.

Though I suppose thats more directed to FS guys.

Tbh RF, dont know why you are asking for advice and punt when it seems like you can make a chair pregnant just by sitting on it through your own exploits.

And I dont believe that high income earners tend to be PUAs.

I have good relationships with very senior people where I work (example, Head of Global Markets, Trading floors, probably earning circa 250-300k before bonus) and knowing them the way I do, id be on the floor rolling with laughter if you told me they were PUAs!

Random example, I dont think Hugh Jackman is a PUA.

I don't think high income earners NEED PU in general.

The only high income earner who might be, who most people would know is Downy Jr.

PU is more for the younger crowd, specifically those who initially had problems talking to women (I mean, thats what it was created for)

Im happy to put my hand up and say I had look into some of it in my early twenties, and there some useful things and some not. But as you get older you realise its almost entirely unecessary, and just being yourself is the best route.

But heres the key and im more than happy to share it for free. Its not just being yourself, because I know for some guys, that might be you sitting not speaking with a nervous tic while munching on a bug you picked up. This might be you "normally".

No what is it is,

Be the best version of yourself you can.

A lot of people think this means you have to be rich, or good looking or something, just essentially boils down to you being congruent, and slowly removing the more offensive things you might do normally. Not everything, if you have a certain thing you do, like straightening out pencils and napkins, by all means keep that in play.

So then the question is, why punt if you can PU? Why not just slay hundreds of women a night for free?

I won't speak for anyone else, but for me, it just boils down to connections.

I love spending time with the girls that I do, and having that connection and intimacy during the time I am there, but once I walk out, I don't want a hundred texts a day from some low esteem 18 year old ive been stringing along, humping my leg trying to prove she isn't whatever I called her.

Ultimately, if it works for you, it works for you.