Quote Originally Posted by Jsmith8888 View Post
Long story short, my wife and I haven't had sex in over a year and I'm a little sexually frustrated and lacking in intimacy.

I posted up earlier in the week about going to a massage parlour, but only for a nude part 1 (hoping this will satiate me) until we can work things out. But the nerves are already getting to me. My nerves are mostly about coming across the ML while out and about with the wife.

I was hoping to go to Sydney Baby Massage as its in a suburb I never visit but close enough to the city to get to. But they haven't accepted by wechat invitation.

Few questions:
1. Can I keep a mask on during my massage? (to conceal my identity a little)
2. Would a ML ever acknowledge me outside a shop if I am with other people?
3. Does anyone know if Sydney Baby massage are still active on their wechat?

I realise this sounds very basic for those who frequent regularly.
Lol, this reminds me of a recent run in I had with an ML. She hailed me on the street, we got to talking, and I found out she had switched jobs and is now in the property market. She seemed keen to "invite me up for coffee" as we were very near where she lived. I guess she wasn't lying when she said I made her come in the 2 very passionate sessions I had with her.
Lo and behold, my partner makes the jump on me talking to this girl... So I bade this lovely ex-ml farewell and went with my partner. Later on my partner asked me who was the pretty young thing I was chatting up (I openly let all my partners know I'm a pervert who will never stop loving pretty young girls). I just said she was a real estate agent I met while house hunting. Case closed, lol!

Back to your questions, you are worried about the wrong thing. You are 1000x more likely to out yourself than have an ML/WL out you in public. There are so many ways you can screw up on your own, like:
1. Washing your hair during/after the session and then going straight home after.
2. Also always check if the shop shower gel is one of those strong smelling ones. If they are, maybe only wash the critical bits or even don't use it... Use water only.
3. Changed behaviour at home. Eg. You've been trying to get it on with the wife and failing, then suddenly you stop even trying.
4. Phone messages call logs, etc.

I'm giving these points because you seem to be very afraid of your wife. Don't be afraid. Women are everywhere, they are our equals, you have a right to get what you need as much as they do.