It's not about competing, RnT and FS are essentially two different products. I am normally an FS guy and I have had FS @ RnT or part 2/2.5 sessions only plenty of times, but they have almost always been planned before I get there. We both knew what was about to go down.

A 30-45 minute massage then sensual 15-30 minutes with an ML is very different. It's not really about sex or ejaculating for me, but more about relaxation.

For those in relationships, A lot of guys and even some MLs can justify a standard RnT session as not cheating. The consensus is whether you agree or not, if the punter or ML can justify it, who really cares what others think?