Really, the first mistake I made when I got here was thinking experimenting was the way to start. My first trip here was... Unfortunate. Then I stumbled into Ginza (a couple years ago) and had an amazing time. Oddly I still keep in touch with the WL I met in a social capacity even though she's moved on from the place... So you are never sure what you will find.

So, yeah, stick to the AAR section until you figure out what works and who you might click with. Keep in mind that YMMV, treat them with respect, and don't be a shitty entitled creep and you should have a great time. After figuring out what works and what places are scary, places with lose testing requirements for example, than go experimenting

Holy shit, what a difference treating them with respect makes. I've got a few friends that I've met from this that tell me it's such a rare thing for them.