Not that I care either way, but just an observation... there's basically two types of punters:
1) those who view paying the WL/ML as a means of keeping it transactional, i.e., so she will leave after the deed is done.
2) those who view paying the WL/ML primarily as a means of receiving sexual services from her.
Looking at Dettol's comment above, it is clear which camp he falls in. The mistake he's making is assuming everyone else is in that group too.