Yeah man, I know exactly what your saying now Riff. Last night I went out with a few girls for a work christmas party. They got a bit drunk however, I was sober because I had to drive. One of the girls left and I was left with my other female friend. She got a bit drunk and was tipsy. Eventually, I had to tell her you have had a bit too much to drink and think its time we go home. Helped her to the car, dropped her home and that was it. But during that whole situation, even though we are not dating, it did feel like I was acting like a boyfriend if that makes sense ? She said to me she would be happy to catch the train home but no way will I allow a girl to catch a train home at midnight whilst drunk. It's just not a cool thing to do. So being the person I am, more than happy to drop them home.Originally Posted by Riff888
But yeah, for those 30 minutes or so, I did feel like my freedom was gone and that I was in relationship. It bought back memories of my ex-girlfriend and even though its great having a girlfriend which is what I want eventually, I felt I lost my freedom.
After I dropped her home, I felt a sense of relief because I wasn't in relationship but being friends with her. No commitments or anything, just a friend looking after another friend.
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