Quote Originally Posted by cuteguy View Post
You're spot on Niceguy11. No one is forcing them to work or stay in this industry. Money is the driving force here. I can understand some girls find this line of employment the only means of paying their college fees but when the girls are buying expensive brand name goods then they must be doing well. If they want to live the high life, dine out at expensive restaurants, drink expensive champagne, buy expensive LV bags, fashion accessories or jewellery, travel and stay at 5 star hotels or resorts than you don't feel sorry for them.

It's not easy being in a relationship with a WL. However, if you are able to accept what she does and just hang out and be friends, that's your choice. Let's make it clear. Not every girl is money hungry or bad. There are some that may be nice and don't want to be doing this job all the time and want to have some time out from work. If she accepts you as a friend and expects no financial rewards just because she hangs out with you then it's fine to socialise. On the other hand, where she expects you to pay for everything and get the princess treatment at all times then forget it. Don't waste your time!
Yeah cuteguy, I have accepted her for who she is. I don't really care she is a WL and to be honest, it makes no difference to my friends who are lawyers, doctors and from other backgrounds. When we hang out outside the shop, its just like hanging out with a normal female or male friend. The times that we have gone out for dinner, she haspaid for most of the dinners we have had. I have offered to pay but she has always pulls out her card quickly and pay which sucks because I want to pay.

The more I get to know her, the more I'm being bought back to reality in terms of punting. About 6 weeks ago, my whole thinking on punting was just to fuck, blow and leave. But now my perspective is coming back. To be totally honest, when I do have sex with her now, its extremely hard to do so. She is probably the most beautiful Chinese girl I have laid eyes on and when she dresses up, I can't stop staring at her and telling her how gorgeous she looks. Like seriously, I'm talking like Fan Bing Bing hot for the Chinese girl lovers out there. But back to my point. It's becoming extremely hard to have sex with her. I do get erect and we have sex like normal but its not like it use to be 6 months ago compared to now. It's the same experience, it has always been the same, but I don't know. Maybe I'm disconnecting from the punting side of things since I now know so much about the realities of punting and feel bad ? Best way to put it is it feels like I'm having sex with my Chinese University friend who is also hot but not a WL.

Anyways, I'm happy where its going at the moment. Sooner rather than later, I'll be quitting punting I think. If my regular moves back to China which is probably imminent, then yeah, that will be me done and dusted.