Could be a mental thing. I've had it before when after a particularly bad sex experience (not necessarily punting), it plays on my mind in my next sex sessions. I start to second guess myself if I can truly enjoy myself, whether I can get over the line, etc. Then that seed of doubt becomes a self fulfilling prophecy, it causes the sex to be bad simply because of the doubt.Originally Posted by jenlai29
Now I think about it, I do overthink about whether or not I'm going to be finishing inside her. I guess maybe it comes during intercourse that my mind says "hey mmm its alright but doesnt kinda feel good".
Though thank you for that advice, I do have a booking this evening. You know what, I'll think more about having a good time while I'm there.
One way I found that can fix it is a "circuit breaker". Just abstain (including self-help) for an extended period of time. How long this is depends on how frequently you usually have sex. If you normally do it once a week, maybe take a month or 2 off sex. Just to give your head the time to forget the bad experience.
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