How do you pay(shops/private)?

[Nabz]

Does your partner demand to see your statements or you're just afraid of her intercepting your paper statements?
If the latter, why don't you just change your bank or credit card statement type to email only? All the providers give you that option now. You will not receive any paper statements moving forward.

Some couples merge accounts so she can see it with out demanding to see his

This. Joint acc so both can see transactions, including cash withdrawals.

I paid card once and it had a discreet name but when I googled it, it when straight to the shop I paid at so it's not full proof if your trying to hide it

Oh wow... That's no good. That's why I'm exploring the use of a virtual credit card.

How does beemit appear on transactions? Can it be traced? A lot of privates ask for deposit these days...