Quote Originally Posted by asiafever View Post
100% spot on.
Consequentialism teaches us that the morality of an action is solely judged on its consequences. Revenge feels good momentarily but honestly the best revenge in a situation like this is just walking away and forgetting they ever existed. You have to live with the consequences of your actions also and in the heat of the moment we can make poor decisions when we've been hurt.
I had a gf I was serious about, I discovered she had actually been using me to cheat on her fiance. I could have dumped her in the shit, I could have ruined her potential marriage etc, I just walked away and never saw her again. Temptation to rat her out was huge, to sabotage her and make her feel as shitty as I did, but thankfully my cooler head prevailed. Next girl I met was the love of my life, but that's another story.

Move on. Life is far too short to waste it on those undeserving of your time and stress.

Sorry, that's a diversion from the topic at hand.
Someone choose to clean up the mess together while some throw themselves away then both end up getting dust.