Invest in a good male shaver, i take it and get my ML to shave me. I pay here and she really loves doing it. Good quality shaver is less painful, actually no pain only pleasure. Followed by an oily massage, its the ultimate and highly sexually charged with a explosive outcome. Lasts just as long as getting waxed, stress but investing in a good quality shaver. Form a good relationship with your ML she will get off on it too, highly recommended.