Sugar dating

[Riff888]

The filo scares me because she doesn’t say no to anything

I chatted up that Asian bird you recommend down to the last stage of setting up the date. She got cut when I told her expected a CIM. Spewing fuck she looked hot.

I just have to point out to ppl if you go on the site there are fucken heaps of scammers. Do not give anyone a deposit. I have written it on my profile that I don’t do deposits so I don’t have my times wasted.

Filo chicks were freaks when I was in my teens and 20s, along with Lebanese girls.

I wouldn't be scared mate, embrace it.

I wouldn't mention CIM until you are doing the deed and she can either say yes or no.

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[Rogeryou]

Filo chicks were freaks when I was in my teens and 20s, along with Lebanese girls.

I wouldn't be scared mate, embrace it.

I wouldn't mention CIM until you are doing the deed and she can either say yes or no.

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Fucken rookie error man I was super keen on that one

[Riff888]

Fucken rookie error man I was super keen on that one

Just a punter's instinct

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[gthgrt]

Realistically you will spend a minimum of $400 a meet. That's the minimum someone starting out could expect to spend.

Lower than that is girls I would not sleep with.

You then have to work out how many of those $400 a meet sessions you can afford in the first month or two until you can negotiate someone into an allowance or a better PPM.

This was how I ended up looking at it as well. What would the minimum cost per meet be without hosting?

For the first meet, start with the SA membership fee $100, add the cost of a date and room, lets say you somehow manage to keep it to $100, then the $400 ppm fee. You will be up to $600 for your first meet. This is assuming you can seal the deal with a single cheap-arse date and get a good deal on a room. Realistically, the dates (multiple) and room will cost more, plus any extras - dinner, drinks, wine, chocolates, etc.
If you need to date several SB's multiple times before you find one that is prepared to progress to the paid meet, you could possibly spend more on the dating part than the ppm fee. Making the overall cost closer to $1000.

Going forward, with repeat visits you may be able to negotiate a better deal, but whatever the ppm fee is, you will have to add room costs, plus any extras - dinner, drinks, wine, chocolates, etc. I doubt many SB's would be impressed if you just meet & fuck.

If you want variety, and want to avoid the complications that come with developing a more personal relationship with a single SB, then your ongoing cost will be higher, as you will be repeating the process required for the first meet, just without the SA subsciption.

I think SD's might understate the overall cost of the SB experience, as they see these extras as gits, not as part of the fee, just them spoiling their SB.
This is speculation, based on what I've read here. I have no SD experience.

[BennyB]

This was how I ended up looking at it as well. What would the minimum cost per meet be without hosting?

For the first meet, start with the SA membership fee $100, add the cost of a date and room, lets say you somehow manage to keep it to $100, then the $400 ppm fee. You will be up to $600 for your first meet. This is assuming you can seal the deal with a single cheap-arse date and get a good deal on a room. Realistically, the dates (multiple) and room will cost more, plus any extras - dinner, drinks, wine, chocolates, etc.
If you need to date several SB's multiple times before you find one that is prepared to progress to the paid meet, you could possibly spend more on the dating part than the ppm fee. Making the overall cost closer to $1000.

Going forward, with repeat visits you may be able to negotiate a better deal, but whatever the ppm fee is, you will have to add room costs, plus any extras - dinner, drinks, wine, chocolates, etc. I doubt many SB's would be impressed if you just meet & fuck.

If you want variety, and want to avoid the complications that come with developing a more personal relationship with a single SB, then your ongoing cost will be higher, as you will be repeating the process required for the first meet, just without the SA subsciption.

I think SD's might understate the overall cost of the SB experience, as they see these extras as gits, not as part of the fee, just them spoiling their SB.
This is speculation, based on what I've read here. I have no SD experience.

Those are fair questions and comments. Certainly if you look at it as a once off or if you are particularly looking at it in just quantitative measures, then it may not be for you.

I tried to summarize it earlier in this thread in two ways -

1. What I think the difference is in the experience and

2. what I spend over a year, how many hours I get for that and how many rounds of sex I get.

I’m not young enough to go two rounds in 30 minutes, or an hour, nor do I value that kind of experience. I can go three rounds in 3-4 hours though, so I want a longer experience. And don’t like paying $400 - $800 an hour with a private. That would cost me thousands per meet if I wanted that kind of time.

I’ve added up my bills and my estimate is that I spend $25 - 30,000 a year on Sugarbabes. I punt once a week with Sugarbabes and I go 2-3 rounds each time on average. My shortest date would be 4 hours. The longest would be an overnight or a weekend.

I don’t have to deal with bait and switches, the clock, the time wasting with inspecting my junk, making me shower, etc. My average cost per hour is between $120 - $130 an hour. With good looking 20-something European women. They look good on my arm and good naked. It’s fun in the bedroom and out. I get multiple girlfriends without the hang ups.

If you can find me better value for my money or my time please tell me where. I’m not precious if there is a better answer for what I’m looking for. I’ll be right over :-)

[Blue007]

Those are fair questions and comments. Certainly if you look at it as a once off or if you are particularly looking at it in just quantitative measures, then it may not be for you.

I tried to summarize it earlier in this thread in two ways -

1. What I think the difference is in the experience and

2. what I spend over a year, how many hours I get for that and how many rounds of sex I get.

I’m not young enough to go two rounds in 30 minutes, or an hour, nor do I value that kind of experience. I can go three rounds in 3-4 hours though, so I want a longer experience. And don’t like paying $400 - $800 an hour with a private. That would cost me thousands per meet if I wanted that kind of time.

I’ve added up my bills and my estimate is that I spend $25 - 30,000 a year on Sugarbabes. I punt once a week with Sugarbabes and I go 2-3 rounds each time on average. My shortest date would be 4 hours. The longest would be an overnight or a weekend.

I don’t have to deal with bait and switches, the clock, the time wasting with inspecting my junk, making me shower, etc. My average cost per hour is between $120 - $130 an hour. With good looking 20-something European women. They look good on my arm and good naked. It’s fun in the bedroom and out. I get multiple girlfriends without the hang ups.

If you can find me better value for my money or my time please tell me where. I’m not precious if there is a better answer for what I’m looking for. I’ll be right over :-)

Hi Benny, thanks for your input really appreciate your insight. Just a question as you have a partner, how do you avoid getting caught by her. I'm assuming you can't be seen taking the sugar baby out to the mall or dinner and how do explain you disappearing for a few hours or overnight?

[StiFFFy]

Hey matey, I'm yet to have a dip in this pool, but this is what I did to hide some former habits:

"Sorry babe I was out drinking with the boys then we went to Barry's place for some smokes because everything was closed and I crashed on the couch" get Barry to back your story up as well, shout him a six pack.

Or "Daz needed a hand with some mechanical work on the Ute /his pc blew up and we got a bit pissed as the beers were flowing"

"Working late, probably will be sleeping under the desk/car again :/ Don't wait up for me love"

Biggest advice, sit down and think really hard about the suburbs and places your SO is visiting and plan everything outside of that. Don't go to places she may have friends/family as well.

Messaging SB, if via text, get an app with self destructive messages. Signal is good as it can be pinned.

As for funds, cash is always king as it isn't tracable. Take small amounts out thru the week/month for "coffee and smokes and lunch" and stash em in the same place as your porno/toys/drugs. I'm a tall guy so for me it was always right at the back top of the cupboards.

Happy Punting

[juscruisin58]

Hi Benny, thanks for your input really appreciate your insight. Just a question as you have a partner, how do you avoid getting caught by her. I'm assuming you can't be seen taking the sugar baby out to the mall or dinner and how do explain you disappearing for a few hours or overnight?

Did you read the full thread, he travels interstate for work

[zl140]

I don't know why most of you blokes don't just go out and meet chicks in pubs and interests groups etc. Save a lot of issues that you guys are always talking about.

I don't know why you're still hanging around on this website if you're truly what you suggest others to do

[monkeybusiness]

Finally a thread about Sugar dating!

Myself joined SA for almost 3 years and I think it’s the best thing ever!

Love to share some stories and tips but I will start off with this funny one:

A friend of mine let his sugarbaby living in his harbour view apartment at Milsons Point in exchange of 10 sex a month (he doesn’t live there). He said the capital gain from that apartment will be more than enough to cover the money he spent on her … smart right?

Few weeks ago he told me the building manager rang him said his sugarbaby keep bringing different guys into the building every few hours 😂

[BennyB]

Hi Benny, thanks for your input really appreciate your insight. Just a question as you have a partner, how do you avoid getting caught by her. I'm assuming you can't be seen taking the sugar baby out to the mall or dinner and how do explain you disappearing for a few hours or overnight?

Hey Blue

You are right. It’s tricky when you have a partner. But it’s the same thing when you are out punting?

Travelling for work on business helps me move around a bit and have options in different states.

If this option is not available to you then some basic good habits at home can also work

- Don’t punt close to home. You are correct, you don’t want to be seen out with someone by your friends, or your partner’s

- Aim for Sugarbabes that suit your lifestyle. If you are married, don’t go for the clingy types who constantly want you on tap. Pick the ones who are happy with something low key and casual

- When I’m at home, as I am this week, I have one Sugarbabe who I take for lunch and then we go back to her place. The other one I see when I’m home I have to get a hotel / airbnb but again I try to punt during working hours. I don’t do overnights at home in Sydney - unless my partner is away visiting her family interstate.

- Have a friend who can vouch for you. Honey I’m off to see Steve and we’re going to the races, etc.

- If you are limited for time, find girls who can be flexible and who don’t mind the thrill of fucking a married / partnered man. There are many girls out there who get a kick out of it

- get a punting phone or use comms apps that are not apparent - Signal, kik, Telegram, etc

- There’s a whole chapter on how not to get sprung in the book I recommended.

- Stiffy’s post above has some good tips. Sounds like a man who has been there.

[BennyB]

Hi Benny, thanks for your input really appreciate your insight. Just a question as you have a partner, how do you avoid getting caught by her. I'm assuming you can't be seen taking the sugar baby out to the mall or dinner and how do explain you disappearing for a few hours or overnight?

And lastly - the most important thing - never ever give your partner a reason to not believe you, or to think that you are cheating on her. Once her radar is up, you are fucked.

I’m sure you are just as careful in your normal punting life. The same rules apply.

[StiFFFy]

Did you read the full thread, he travels interstate for work

Hey Blue

You are right. It’s tricky when you have a partner.

- Stiffy’s post above has some good tips. Sounds like a man who has been there.

Eat your fekkin heart out Cruisin!
Thanks Benny, but no, this is a first for me; it was different kind of activity (juggling 3 crazy shielas).
I think you should do a book Benny. You seem plump full info. I'd buy it.

[BennyB]

Eat your fekkin heart out Cruisin!
Thanks Benny, but no, this is a first for me; it was different kind of activity (juggling 3 crazy shielas).
I think you should do a book Benny. You seem plump full info. I'd buy it.

Juscruisin is living the life. Hot 20-something on tap who’s in love with an older man. Most guys have to go to Thailand to find that.

Juggling 3 crazy women Stiffy? Sounds like you are the perfect fit for punting Sugarbabes.

Most of it is common sense. I had a couple of good mentors when I started out punting and they kept me on the straight and narrow. And my balls out of divorce court.

Reading the detailed reviews from guys who were punting Sugarbabes also helped my game.

[BennyB]

Finally a thread about Sugar dating!

Myself joined SA for almost 3 years and I think it’s the best thing ever!

Love to share some stories and tips but I will start off with this funny one:

A friend of mine let his sugarbaby living in his harbour view apartment at Milsons Point in exchange of 10 sex a month (he doesn’t live there). He said the capital gain from that apartment will be more than enough to cover the money he spent on her … smart right?

Few weeks ago he told me the building manager rang him said his sugarbaby keep bringing different guys into the building every few hours ��

This is fantastic Monkeybusiness. Classic story. I guess her parking space was free and so she rented it out?

[juscruisin58]

Eat your fekkin heart out Cruisin!

Thanks for your support BennyB

StiFFFy, Don't need to my fecking eat my heart out for you or anybody else.

If as I suggested, if people had read the full thread, not only would the other poster realise BennyB travels frequently for work, therefore able to meet SB's regularly, You would have realised, I am in a longterm, exclusive arrangement with a 24 yr old (I am 56), we have been together just on 2 years and she now lives with me.
So, I am VERY HAPPY with my arrangement thanks

[StiFFFy]

Thanks for your support BennyB

StiFFFy, Don't need to my fecking eat my heart out for you or anybody else.

If as I suggested, if people had read the full thread, not only would the other poster realise BennyB travels frequently for work, therefore able to meet SB's regularly, You would have realised, I am in a longterm, exclusive arrangement with a 24 yr old (I am 56), we have been together just on 2 years and she now lives with me.
So, I am VERY HAPPY with my arrangement thanks

This is why communication in person is superior; text just doesn't have the same impact. I wasn't being a 2 inch dildo matey, just stirring a bit. Guess forum doesn't do emojis well.
Back on topic, what website have you had the greatest success with?

[BennyB]

I thought it was all in jest myself.

Over the past three years I’ve probably had 80% of my SBs from Seeking. The remainder from SDM.

I’m sure others will have views on which sites they get the most out of.

The most reviews of sex meets I read are on Seeking.

[BennyB]

This is why communication in person is superior; text just doesn't have the same impact.

Stiffy you just touched on the clincher for me. Meet in person before you play. I think it's essential.

If you are shelling out a few hundred for a punt, you want to know that the pretty face is real and that the chemistry in person is at least as good as it is on text.

Buying on photos (Scarlet Blue / E&B bait and switch anyone?) is just fools gold.

[gthgrt]

Those are fair questions and comments. Certainly if you look at it as a once off or if you are particularly looking at it in just quantitative measures, then it may not be for you.

I tried to summarize it earlier in this thread in two ways -

1. What I think the difference is in the experience and

2. what I spend over a year, how many hours I get for that and how many rounds of sex I get.

I’m not young enough to go two rounds in 30 minutes, or an hour, nor do I value that kind of experience. I can go three rounds in 3-4 hours though, so I want a longer experience. And don’t like paying $400 - $800 an hour with a private. That would cost me thousands per meet if I wanted that kind of time.

I’ve added up my bills and my estimate is that I spend $25 - 30,000 a year on Sugarbabes. I punt once a week with Sugarbabes and I go 2-3 rounds each time on average. My shortest date would be 4 hours. The longest would be an overnight or a weekend.

I don’t have to deal with bait and switches, the clock, the time wasting with inspecting my junk, making me shower, etc. My average cost per hour is between $120 - $130 an hour. With good looking 20-something European women. They look good on my arm and good naked. It’s fun in the bedroom and out. I get multiple girlfriends without the hang ups.

If you can find me better value for my money or my time please tell me where. I’m not precious if there is a better answer for what I’m looking for. I’ll be right over :-)

I haven't posted anything about it not being good value.
I was just after a realistic understanding of what it would actually cost.
I don't have a better alternative for you.

Thanks to all the SD's for the information provided.