Quote Originally Posted by The Sampler View Post
So firstly im asian but born here, top it off i dont talk speak nor understand Chinese, or Thai, or Korean, basically most ML languages lol. But i do get the 'asian' treatment at most ML places.

The shop is at 18 O'Connell st in Parramatta, i think it doubles as some sort of Eye Lashes shop called CocoLashes. I think i've mentioned this in my original post.

I'm not much of a smooth talker yes, but i do try to suss out if theres a part 2/3. I usually try to compliment on what feels good, their techniques and their looks/touch. Might even strike a convo in general. But these ladies were just so disinterested in talking in english it was just better to stay silent and enjoy the blissful massage. Additionally i keep my hands to myself out of respect for ladies i don't know well, I'll get more hands on with a ML who im regular with.
Fair enough bro. If there's not enough verbal communication to break the ice, I wouldn't recommend groping her. Actually now that you mention your predicament I kind of understand what all the fuss is about asking for extras. I used to dismiss it as just guys being too shy. It could be quite daunting if you can't really talk to the girls!

One tip I can give you WRT the language barrier is that it is worse with certain nationalities. The worst of the lot are the Chinese girls. They are simply too lazy to get out of their comfort zones, never put any effort into learning English and will try to get by with just speaking Chinese in every opportunity they can get. Like, they meet a John with slitty eyes for the first time, boom they start speaking Mando hoping that the guy can speak Mando too. They are in a completely separate level of non-English-speaking to any other girls. The flipside is, if you can speak even the most basic Mando, your chances of getting something from them increases by multiples!

All other Asian nationalities girls will have at least some level of English proficiency. Thai are the best, most are proficient enough to flirt in English. J and K girls mostly have some basic English, but they often do not have enough confidence in the language to be able to flirt in it like the Thai girls do.

The other thing I find works really well is to sort of bring down the level of your own English when talking to them. Almost like speaking in broken English. It might give you goosebumps the first time you try it, but you'll get the hang of it.

Good luck punting and welcome to the forum bro!