Sorry, should have provided some context. I just peruse the forums without posting but I made an account just to post this because I'm livid. She was actively trying to keep her mouth closed when I tried to kiss her so I thought she didn't like tongue which is fair. She gave me a BBBJ tho. It makes sense now in hindsight since she would have had active cold sores. I gave her the benefit of the doubt before messaging in which she possibly may not have known it could be transmitted to the genitals, however after asking her she called me crazy and said she's clean. I've been tested and clean (never had an STI) since my last experience months before and yet she denied having anything. Either she got it recently and didn't know (highly doubt) or she knew and went along with it without warning me anyway. You guys can do what you like, just giving you a heads up.