There are problems exist with both, and not only here in Australia. Since returning to Sydney I have been examining both options.
As I drive around Sydney, I tend to drop in for a 30 minute rub is probably some unlikely places and have found some nice ladies who will do that bit extra with or without the bosses/mamasan's knowing.
Most of the privates I have found to be mainly bait and switch, BUT you can find the occasional gem amongst those as well. The problem is to find those who will still be around next week.
I have managed to find one beautiful Aussie thru https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/ (which I got from this site somewhere). We clicked over coffee and progressed from there. I also found one of my neighbours, an older single mum who's teenage son I happen to meet previously. I might stay away from her !!
Keep an open mind, and maybe turn a questionable experience into a good one, a short term into a long term, take life as it comes....