My advice stop punting and focus on the wife, talk to her about spicing things up by watching some bondage and go buy some adult toys to use in the bedroom,
you got to think of the consequences if something goes wrong like she gets an STD from you or she finds outs and ask for a divorce or even worse she passes away and you have to live with the guilt,
take this opportunity to re think your actions and the long term price you will have to pay just to get some whore to suck your dick