Hi , I went out with a ML almost 2 years , a great girl had a great time and she always was upfront when we got more serious , most of them just switch on at work and play the game as do strippers , then go home forget about it and hang out with boyfriend , hubby or friends , its that simple . And the good money is the motivation , trust me if most of them could do something else and make decent money they would , well thats just my Experience ?