Quote Originally Posted by Stalkingbutler View Post
I’m in the process of falling hard for an ML so this is fascinating to read.

It’s amazing how the right words, reciprocal desire, kindness and attention can be intoxicating. Not to mention receiving service quality that goes above and beyond standard extras.

Especially when you are lonely, or feeling empty.

Is seems this an angle the women play regularly to hook a customer for longer and more regular visits or a sadistic power play? Or both?

So… help bring me back to my senses. Convince me I’m being played (or not)!
You are not being played. You are just in delusion. Period.

There is nothing more to convince you. When you go to shop to buy something the attendant is nice to you, smiles at you while talking and says you look good in that shirt. Because that is her job and getting you to buy that shirt helps her reach her sales target. If you don't fall for her, then why are you falling for ML? It is their job and they are providing a service. Enjoy the service, respect the service provider. But end the story there.

I am friendly with few MLs and they seems to share a lot of their stories and life views with me. From what I heard, most of them have something broken inside them after seeing so many penis and married/committed men coming to them everyday, as described themselves.

Don't blame ML by saying they are playing you. You paid her to be nice to you and to provide service to you.