Confidence

[rooter]

Not here in Sydney. You could probably get away with this in SEA.

True bro, and the reason for that is that basically in SE Asia you are a punter.
You could be in a bar, or night club, or cafe, or MacDonald's, or on a plane or, or walking down the street, or on a bus, but basically in SE Asia you are a punter and the girls are WLs. It's all about money.