Geez, we just had mental health day and now we have this! And Violet being a psychology student, I couldn't believe she agreed to juscruising's "challenge".

Think about it. When you die, would you like to be remembered as "juscruising the AUS99 forummer who triumphed in life and snagged a hot 21 YO GF when he was 58, nobody knows his real name", or maybe something a little more honorable?

A silly nick on an internet sex forum. That's all you're "defending". You need to realise that and move on.