Interesting read Pussyhands, thanks for sharing. I'm sure the pitchforks will be out for this one. As dangerous as it is, it's hard to beat the feeling when a WL you click with and build a rapport with over multiple sessions organically eventuates to BBFS. I'd consider myself a beta so I don't get this feeling outside of punts.

I don't frequent western shops much but have tried Stilettos, Liaisons and A Touch More Class each once, and didn't get that vibe. Might be due to my background. I've had more occurrences at Asian shops though, including the ones you mentioned.