Perhaps you are just baiting but I don't think it is that simple.
No dispute on the purpose and value of this forum, however imo we have a responsibility to be careful and respectful when detailing such personal aspects. Sure, everything on the forum is opinion based and one man's dud root is another's best ever, but such personal stuff will stick, even if unfounded or an isolated one off occurrence, but the girl will likely forever be tainted.
Just ask the numerous public figures accused of crimes that were later dismissed or they defended, despite being found guilty in the court of public opinion.. .mud sticks.
I have a line in the sand and in numerous neg reports have got my message across effectively.