Let's say you get a job at McDonalds (rub n tugs are the maccas of the sex industry) and you stop handing food out of the drive-thru window because you're a princess and don't feel like doing it that day.. or maybe you don't like the customers order.. do you think that's appropriate? I have regulars and we are all on the same page. They service me and they get money - we both leave it at that. In this type of work I don't see these girls as human, because you can be damn sure they don't see their customers as such. If you visit these workers thinking you're going to become their best friend, buddy, lover etc you're kidding yourself mate. You're nothing but an atm.