if you think you can fall in love with someone who sucks randoms off for cash, well, any kind of advice you get in here is not going to help you. you cannot be helped.

so-called 'love' is always selfish. how do you share ? impossible. if your wife cheated on you just once, can you forgive her ? how do you know there won't be a second time ? if she cheated on you, how far back did that happen ? would you take all your kids for DNA testing to make sure they are yours ? it goes on and on. if you cannot forgive your wife, how are you going to accept someone who willingly does things to other men for money, and then say to you that you are so so special ?