I have a regular who does BBFS with "me only" apparently, stays for a couple of months at a time, is a student, and works at one of the more popular joints. She says she loves me.

Do I believe her? No

Reason: She sees multiple guys throughout the day. It's an emotional rollercoaster for her. Hormones, emotions, the visceral feelings she feels inside the emotion centers of her mind gets all mixed up. Sometimes she hates her job, but sometimes she feels it's a great job because the money is so damn good. She has internal conflict, and sometimes this conflict is released when an attractive alpha-male customer comes and in the moment she lets herself go and says to herself "Fuck it, just this time I'll fuck him raw".

We reason with logic, hence for us we justify she won't do it with others because of X, Y, and Z. Women reason with the emotions they feel in the moment. That's why they say women have a sixth sense and are more present than us. When's the most present any of us ever felt? When we blow a fucking load hahaha