Quote Originally Posted by bleekpit View Post
that's a good way of putting it. never thought of it like that. it's just that whenever there was an extra from more experienced ML or WL they would always straight out tell me at the end. just felt new to me having to "remind" girls of the payment as I was walking out.
I'm the opposite. I've rarely had an ML have to ask me for the money at the end of the sessions. On occasion, there are some MLs that demand payment upfront but they are very rare and almost always on a first meet.

So what I do is I always pay the tip the moment I've got enough clothes on me. Top on, pants on, grab my wallet from the counter, pay.

I do my best not to be asked to pay because I'm dealing with an Asian lady most of the time, it's about "saving face". When it gets to the point that she has to ask me for it, that's it, my standing in her view has just gone a few levels down. That's never a good thing if I can help it!