Quote Originally Posted by gpeck80 View Post
And then there's the women that just use it as a dating site and the ones that want platonic friendship only (which are fun to convert).
yep, it took a couple of days for the quiet ones to emerge. i ignore the platonic part and just push ahead with coffee (not paid!) and decide on the vibe.

I'm conscious of not mentioning sex in the online chats. I just leave that hanging in their mind and let them be the one to raise it. so, number of males on the site, mentioned sex/money in the first few messages 99.9% then there is me.