Quote Originally Posted by gundamsux View Post
Straying off topic a little bit. Would like some useful advice please 🙏.

I went to a dinner party, I met a friend of a friend of my wife. And I am so rizzed. She was the most charming and beautiful looking Caucasian girl I’ve ever met in real life. Gorgeous smile. The type that gave me a warm fuzzy feeling just thinking about her every day in a the past week. We had very light conversations only and never exchanged any details, but I could reach out on facebook if I wanted to.
Being Asian background I am feeling a little self conscious to reach out. Also although she is not in my wife’s circle, she is friend of a friend of my wife. I also don't want a long term adultery partner, I don’t don’t think I need the emotional part, I love my wife dearly and have no intention to divorce. But I cannot stop myself thinking about her the whole week and super tempted to reach out.
Sorry about the long rant. Please give me all the reasons I shouldn’t do it and snap me out of this
If you're thinking about that girl behind your wife's back then that means you're lusting for her. Have you tried banging a Caucasian girl before? They're not as good as Asians imo. I suggest banging your wife as much as you can and reassess if your lust for that girl is still strong. Or your regular WL that you planned on bringing home for a hanky panky, get her to make your dick fall off.